Question 1

Who usually writes an obituary?

Accepted Answer

Typically, an immediate family member, such as a spouse, child, or sibling, writes the obituary. However, many families choose to work with professional obituary writers or funeral directors to ensure the tribute is beautifully crafted during a difficult time.

Question 2

How do I write an obituary?

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Start by gathering key information: full name, dates of birth and passing, and a list of surviving family members. Then, focus on their life story—career, hobbies, and personality. Keep the tone respectful and true to who they were.

Question 3

What is the difference between an obituary and a death notice?

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A death notice is a short, factual announcement usually placed in a newspaper, providing details about the person's passing and funeral arrangements. An obituary is longer, telling the story of the person's life and legacy.

Question 4

How long should an obituary be?

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A standard obituary is between 100 and 250 words. However, if it's being published online or in a program rather than a newspaper (where you pay by the word), it can be longer to fully capture their life.

Question 5

Can I write my own obituary before I pass?

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Yes, many people write their own obituaries as part of their end-of-life planning. It ensures the facts are correct and allows you to say goodbye in your own words.

Question 6

How much does an obituary cost?

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Our professional writing service starts at $19.99. However, publishing an obituary in a local or national newspaper can cost anywhere from $50 to over $500, depending on the length and the publication's rates.

Question 7

What should NOT be included in an obituary?

Accepted Answer

Avoid including sensitive personal information like the person's exact address, mother's maiden name, or social security number to protect against identity theft. It's also best to avoid airing family grievances.

Question 8

How long does it take to write an obituary?

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Writing it yourself can take several hours over a few days. Our professional writers can deliver a beautifully crafted obituary within one hour after receiving your details.

Question 9

Can you write an obituary in Spanish?

Accepted Answer

Yes, we offer bilingual services and can write or translate obituaries in Spanish to honor your loved one's heritage.

Question 10

What is an online obituary service?

Accepted Answer

An online obituary service provides a digital platform to write, publish, and share a loved one's life story. It often includes professional writing assistance and a permanent digital memorial.

Question 11

What is the difference between a funeral home service and an online writing service?

Accepted Answer

Funeral homes handle the physical arrangements and often provide basic obituary templates. An online writing service specializes in crafting personalized, well-written life stories that you can share with the funeral home or newspapers.

Question 12

What is the difference between an obituary and a eulogy?

Accepted Answer

An obituary is a written notice of a person's death, usually published before the funeral. A eulogy is a speech delivered at the funeral or memorial service, focusing on personal memories and stories.

Question 13

Should an obituary include the cause of death?

Accepted Answer

It is entirely up to the family. Some families choose to state the cause, while others prefer phrases like 'passed away peacefully' or omit it altogether.

Question 14

How do I write an obituary for a mother?

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Focus on her nurturing qualities, her role in the family, and the lessons she taught. Mention her children, grandchildren, and the warmth she brought to her home.

Question 15

How do I write an obituary for a father?

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Highlight his guidance, his career, his passions, and how he supported and loved his family. Share a brief anecdote that captures his character.

Question 16

How do I write an obituary for a child?

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Keep it tender and focused on the joy they brought during their time. Mention their favorite toys, activities, and the profound love they experienced.

Question 17

How do I write a military obituary?

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Be sure to include their rank, branch of service, conflicts served in, and any significant medals or honors received, acknowledging their service to the country.

Question 18

What is a short obituary?

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A short obituary is typically under 100 words, providing only the essential details: name, age, date of passing, survivors, and service information.

Question 19

How do I submit an obituary to a newspaper?

Accepted Answer

Most newspapers have an online submission portal or a specific email address for their obituaries department. You can usually find this information on their website.

Question 20

Do you offer English and Spanish obituaries?

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Yes, we provide beautifully written obituaries in both English and Spanish to support diverse families.

Question 21

¿Quién escribe normalmente un obituario?

Accepted Answer

Generalmente lo escribe un familiar cercano, pero muchas familias confían en escritores profesionales para crear un tributo hermoso y respetuoso.

Question 22

¿Cuánto cuesta publicar un obituario?

Accepted Answer

Nuestro servicio de redacción comienza en $19.99. La publicación en periódicos varía según la longitud y el medio.

Question 23

¿Qué información debe incluirse?

Accepted Answer

Nombre completo, fechas importantes, familiares sobrevivientes, y un breve resumen de su vida y legado.

Question 24

¿Cuánto tiempo toma?

Accepted Answer

Nosotros podemos entregar un obituario redactado profesionalmente en menos de una hora.

Question 25

¿Ofrecen servicios bilingües?

Accepted Answer

Sí, podemos redactar el obituario en español o en formato bilingüe (inglés y español).

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